God has to get you ready and prepare you to be that wife. God has to prepare your future husband and get him ready. We may think we are ready and we might be, but maybe God is still working on him. God could also be still working in us and wanting us to do His work while we wait. In the meantime of waiting, when your lonely, when your bored, when you are outside looking at Gods beauty or before you go to bed, say a prayer for your future husband. Ask God to protect him and to work on him and mold him into the man God wants him to be. Ladies, our men still needs protection and to be able to overcome temptation. They need strength and courage to take on whatever God has called them to do, or to even lead us in our future. Being a godly man and a husband is a huge responsibility and its an honor for them, but we are their help mates and we need to pray for them, even if they arnt in our lives right now.
How would you feel when God places that man into your life and your future husband tells you that hes been praying for you for a long time?? Take a moment and think about that................I see the smile come across your face. To know that a husband that we may or may not know right now, was praying for us before God joined us together is a HUGE blessing. We need to wait on God and pray for our future husband as he is walking with God.
In the meantime if there is anything you need to work on, now is the time to do it, not when you are trying to start a relationship and have the newness and time consuming effort that comes with it. If you are wanting to lose some weight, do it! If you are wanting to get in a woman's group, do it! If you are wanting to start you a business, do it! If you are wanting to travel, do it! If you are wanting to pay off some bills, do it! Ladies, when God does bring our husbands into our lives, how better of a wife and woman would we be, if we felt confident and sexy, didn't have debt, had some girlfriends for support, had financial stability??? Our men would look at us and respect and honor us that we are a child of Christ and have values and respect for ourselves. I think men find it attractive when a woman knows who she is and also takes care of her responsibilities. Also, because we stepped up and worked on bettering ourselves, we make it easier for them and take unnecessary burdens off their shoulders.
Also I encourage for you to spend this time waiting, with God!!! You will never get this time alone with God again after the man God places in your life and even a family down the road. Now you have some time to spend one-on-one with God and do His will and volunteer to help others, go to Bible studies, or dance in your room to praise music, and just depend on the Father who loves His princess. Our Father who wants to be everything and MORE that we tend to sit here and dream that our husbands will do for us. God can and will always fulfill us in a way that NO MAN can. Until us ladies put God first and put our complete trust and faith in Him and be content with that, we will never find it. We cant find in a another human or an object, what we can find in Christ. We will get lonely at times and we will crave that companionship, but that's how God made us, but until then, when you feel sad and lonely, just cry on the shoulder of the one who will NEVER leave you. His big arms are welcome open wide to hug you and comfort you.
I want this to be a reminder to all the single ladies who is truly wanting Gods best and who is wanting to wait on God do His work in your lives! I know I have talked to a lot of single Christian ladies who wonder if there are any good godly men out there and have the same morals and values as we crave and desire, and I'm here to tell you that there are!! Those desires that is in your heart, exist, because God put them there. Gods not going to put a desire or a dream in your heart if its not able to be fulfilled. I would recommend when praying, to ask God to remove any desires that is not from Him and to place the true desires and will He has for your life.
So go ahead girlfriend.... pray for him, write letters to your future husband, work on bettering yourself and thank God for this time alone with just and Him.
You are worth waiting for, don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise!!!
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