To my single ladies!!!

Ladies, one day theres going to be a man that walks into your life and wants to make it better.  A person who is sent from God and wants to lead you down the straight and narrow path.  Someone who holds your hand to pray with you and a man who wants to make you laugh and protect you all at the same time.  This person will strive to make you happy and you desire the same thing back for them.  Life wont be perfect and hard times will come, but together with Christ as the center you will be able to overcome together as a stronger couple.

God has to get you ready and prepare you to be that wife.  God has to prepare your future husband and get him ready.  We may think we are ready and we might be, but maybe God is still working on him.  God could also be still working in us and wanting us to do His work while we wait.  In the meantime of waiting, when your lonely, when your bored, when you are outside looking at Gods beauty or before you go to bed, say a prayer for your future husband.  Ask God to protect him and to work on him and mold him into the man God wants him to be.  Ladies, our men still needs protection and to be able to overcome temptation.  They need strength and courage to take on whatever God has called them to do, or to even lead us in our future.  Being a godly man and a husband is a huge responsibility and its an honor for them, but we are their help mates and we need to pray for them, even if they arnt in our lives right now.  

How would you feel when God places that man into your life and your future husband tells you that hes been praying for you for a long time?? Take a moment and think about that................I see the smile come across your face.  To know that a husband that we may or may not know right now, was praying for us before God joined us together is a HUGE blessing.  We need to wait on God and pray for our future husband as he is walking with God.    

In the meantime if there is anything you need to work on, now is the time to do it, not when you are trying to start a relationship and have the newness and time consuming effort that comes with it.  If you are wanting to lose some weight, do it!  If you are wanting to get in a woman's group, do it! If you are wanting to start you a business, do it! If you are wanting to travel, do it! If you are wanting to pay off some bills, do it!  Ladies, when God does bring our husbands into our lives, how better of a wife and woman would we be, if we felt confident and sexy, didn't have debt, had some girlfriends for support, had financial stability???  Our men would look at us and respect and honor us that we are a child of Christ and have values and respect for ourselves.  I think men find it attractive when a woman knows who she is and also takes care of her responsibilities.  Also, because we stepped up and worked on bettering ourselves, we make it easier for them and take unnecessary burdens off their shoulders.  

Also I encourage for you to spend this time waiting, with God!!! You will never get this time alone with God again after the man God places in your life and even a family down the road.  Now you have some time to spend one-on-one with God and do His will and volunteer to help others, go to Bible studies, or dance in your room to praise music, and just depend on the Father who loves His princess.  Our  Father who wants to be everything and MORE that we tend to sit here and dream that our husbands will do for us.  God can and will always fulfill us in a way that NO MAN can.  Until us ladies put God first and put our complete trust and faith in Him and be content with that, we will never find it.  We cant find in a another human or an object, what we can find in Christ.  We will get lonely at times and we will crave that companionship, but that's how God made us, but until then, when you feel sad and lonely, just cry on the shoulder of the one who will NEVER leave you.  His big arms are welcome open wide to hug you and comfort you.  

 

 

I want this to be a reminder to all the single ladies who is truly wanting Gods best and who is wanting to wait on God do His work in your lives!  I know I have talked to a lot of single Christian ladies who wonder if there are any good godly men out there and have the same morals and values as we crave and desire, and I'm here to tell you that there are!!  Those desires that is in your heart, exist, because God put them there.  Gods not going to put a desire or a dream in your heart if its not able to be fulfilled.  I would recommend when praying, to ask God to remove any desires that is not from Him and to place the true desires and will He has for your life. 

 

So go ahead girlfriend.... pray for him, write letters to your future husband, work on bettering yourself and thank God for this time alone with just and Him. 

 

You are worth waiting for, don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise!!!

 

 

SELF WORTH OF A WOMAN

SELF WORTH OF A WOMAN
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a ...moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes. She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a Godly man who is a leader and striving for excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't submitting to God or taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy in Christ. And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot".

 

Newsboys Concert

Spending time with my gramps on 4-15-15

 Today was such a beautiful day and it was a day that I didn't have a lot to do, so I spent some time outside enjoying the weather and spending time with my grandpa.  He is always at home and dosent get out a lot and my dog needs a friend and she likes to get out too, so we went around town with a bag of bread and fed some birds, ducks, and some gophers.  I love spending time with my grandpa and I wish he could move around better, but hes 85 and I am just thankful and blessed that he is still walking and here with me on this earth!!!

 I love him, he is so darn cute!!! He is the best man that I have ever met and such a godly man.  He still teaches his Sunday school class at his church!

creeeeeeepy pic

 she was the QUEEN OF THE WORLD!!!

................then it was time to go